Miran Dalley, MS, LCPC

After trying to fix my marriage, seeing couples therapists and doing everything I could to fix myself, my marriage was no better. That’s why after 15 years in real estate, I went back to school to become a therapists at 39 years old.

I found the love within myself. I found the wholeness in myself. I understood what I brought to the table and what was not mine. I learned to trust myself, to communicate, to be the partner I wanted and was proud to be. Then I decided I was not being loved in the way that I wanted and deserved, so I ended the marriage and got back out into the dating world at 43 years old.

People don’t believe me, but I had an interesting and positive experience in the dating world. 6 months into the process, I became smitten and the rest is history. During this process, I saw so many of my clients, people on social media, and friends struggling through the process and feeling hopeless and despair. I get it, the whole process can make you feel like there is no solid ground beneath you, especially after trauma and heartbreak.

I trained from the best couples therapists, trauma and attachment leaders, learned everything I could. I studied to really be able to deeply help others find their safety and connection again. It is my purpose in this life to truly help couples who are desperate to feel close, safe and to find their best friend again. That moment when one partner feels finally heard from their partner, begins to find hope again is the best feeling in the world to be a part of. Or sometimes, that moment of clarity when they too realize they are not being loved in the way that they deserve and I stand by them to make that courageous leap of faith that they are not stuck in that life. Either way, their life will never be the same for a more empowering state of love and connection.

Let me be your light, to help you through this process. I want this for you too!

XXOO Love & Light!

Miran Dalley, MS, LCPC, LPC

Our Process:

Why are we different:

First of all, we are a concierge service! Instead of getting once a week sessions, and then having to fend for yourself in your raw state, we provide support during, and in between sessions to help solidify the new process.

We understand that the cycle you have gotten into is due to the survival mechanisms you have always had to rely on. These survival techniques have kept you safe and at one point was necessary for what was needed to get you where you are.

We will begin to understand these techniques, honor what you need and teach you skills and communication to allow you to continue top be safe, but connect simultaneously. We begin to understand from a deeper level of your nervous system and learning to reroute from a more empowered and intentional behaviors that will support a connection with your partner, instead of getting you further apart.

Our objectives in our sessions together:

Understanding each individual and their needs for attachment, safety, narratives and beliefs
Understanding how each partner’s needs and past experiences have been brought into the relationship
Understand the cycle that gets you stuck
Learning and practicing new techniques, communication and skills so you can change the cycle to promote connection and trust.
You will have resources for in between sessions to help you build these new patterns so they become strengthened.

We work to holistically make distinct changes so each person feels safe to connect and stay connected even in conflict.

Make the investment that will change the foundation for the rest of your relationship!